We all gravitate to what interests us! It can be no other way. What I like, you may not like, but the beauty and freedom of our being human is that we can differ and still be friends, family and/or lovers. What determines this sacred motivating imploding bond- in each of us-are the variegated levels of consciousness. Isn’t it marvelous to be able to communicate what we feel in ways we choose to express without limitation or inhibition?

More importantly without he fear of being condemned, ridiculed or dismissed!

Being ‘natural and convenient’ in our involvements, affords us the incalculable opportunity to evolve by/through various situations, events, circumstances and relationships which would otherwise beset us so easily and completely. When we learn “to be where our feet are”, we generate conditions conducive to the specific situations attached with lessons we need to learn.

WE can never second guess why we are doing what we are doing; neither can we know affirmatively why we get involved with the designated people we draw to us. Suffice it to say that “things are exactly like they are supposed to be and happen for unsuspecting reasons we can’t see.” It’s all a matter of embracing what is before us, precisely as it presents itself, with no need to convert, alter,
belittle, bemoan, condemn, dismantle, modify, or eliminate the picture.

 

Getting our eyes off the other and onto ourselves sustains and supports our 'tree planted by the water' convictions!

As human beings, we tend to superimpose our interpretative ideas on events and relationships, expecting those who are under our scrutiny to be grateful for our disrobing them of their integrity and freedom of speech. In other words, we intend to influence, hoping to sway their opinions so that they support and uphold us.
Nothing could be more deleterious! It is impossible for us to be authentically represented IF we continually try to change the other. Forget about it!  We are to embrace, accept and appreciate disguised blessings set before us in all manners of dubious ill favored costumes.